a motto someone shared with me many years ago, “ki-lined”:
prepare for the toughest outcome.
expect little, if you must expect anything at all.
hope for the best. and more: hope for everything.
if you prepare for “the worst that can happen”, and you can see that you will still make it through, you can relax.
if you expect little, if you are not attached to the outcome at all, you can relax a bit more.
if you can hope for everything, you can step into each day with a chance of joy, and contentment.
have you noticed that some people, some news outlets, some shows, some businesses are barraging us with worst case scenarios?
if we can choose to look at any situation from more than one perspective, what makes us decide to see the worst, what makes us see the best?
both viewpoints can be useful. the worst case scenario can prompt us to prepare well, the best case scenario can show us opportunity.
today, be encouraged to take a closer look to see what else is there.
and if the day, or your screen, or your to do list, or the person next to you just look glum, try another filter. stand on your head, flip the script.
you might just be inspired.
when you feel confused, check in with your heart.
where is it? don’t let your thoughts tell you. instead, breathe, and follow your breath down into your lungs. feel your heart beat, use your hand if you need to. feel into this beat. feel into this rhythm. what is it telling you?
keep your heart light. its only job is to beat. drop all the thoughts that make your heart heavy, even if only for a few hours. let your heart carry you, and hold it safe in return.
when our routine is interrupted, we tend to react. many make the mistake and overreact. many feel an overwhelming fear that this is “the end” of life. but it is only the end of life as we know it. everything flows.
don’t allow fear to cloud your vision.
be still. feel your roots. breathe in deeply and exhale fully. three times.
assess the situation. what is really there? what do you have, what do you need? take a moment to write it down.
be careful with the answer to the last question.
what do you really need? are you sure?
then, draw lines between what you have and what you need. re-arrange the list if you have to.
the needs that are not met? circle the most important one. take one small step to take you there.
you decide each day how you are going to show up.
you can spend energy on complaining. you can spend energy on being fearful.
you can awful-ize.
you can look for opportunities.
you can look for gifts.
what makes you happier?
what makes you feel whole right this moment?
what gives you strength?
it really isn’t that difficult.
one small step.
write it down.
“i choose to happify my first thoughts as i wake up.
i write down one good thing i want for myself.
i write one thing i am grateful for today.
i think about it before i go to sleep, i lay it next to my bed, i look at it in the morning.”
do it one day.
then two more.
shoot for a week.
tell me how it changed your day.